Parents Archives | Think Orange We create curriculum, resources, and training to help every ministry leader reimagine what their church does for kids and teenagers. Tue, 23 Sep 2025 18:06:31 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://thinkorange.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/cropped-OrangeLogo-300x75-1-32x32.png Parents Archives | Think Orange 32 32 Parent+: Put Your Ministry in Parents’ Hands Every Day of the Week https://thinkorange.com/blog/parent-put-your-ministry-in-parents-hands-every-day-of-the-week/ Tue, 23 Sep 2025 18:06:30 +0000 https://thinkorange.com/?p=53813 Parent+ is a customizable church discipleship app that helps parents turn Sunday lessons into everyday faith. With videos, devotionals, and conversation starters, Parent+ bridges the gap between church and home—all included with Amazing+.

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You’ve probably heard this math before: the church gets about 40 hours a year with a child. Parents get over 3,000. That gap is why the Orange Strategy matters—because the light of the church (yellow) should empower the heart of the home (red). Discipleship can’t start and stop on Sunday.

Most parents want to disciple their kids but feel unsure where to start. What do I say? How do I bring up faith in everyday life? Without help, those 3,000 hours slip away.

A Bridge Between Sunday and Every Day

What if parents could open their phone and see exactly what their kids learned on Sunday, plus a simple way to carry it into mealtime, car rides, or bedtime? What if faith at home felt less like pressure and more like natural, repeatable moments?

That’s the vision behind our brand-new, for-your-church app: Parent+.

Introducing Parent+

Parent+ is a customizable, church-branded app that puts your discipleship strategy right into the hands of families. Powered by the technology of Amazing Life and the Orange strategy of biblically grounded, age-specific content, it brings Sunday’s lessons into the rhythms of everyday life with videos, conversation starters, devotionals, and activities.

And because it’s your church’s name, colors, and logo on the app—not a brand parents don’t recognize—every notification feels like a trusted nudge from their own pastor and leaders.

What’s Included

Inside Parent+, families find:

  • Weekly video lessons that match what kids and students learned on Sunday.
  • Quick conversation starters to spark meaningful talk in just a minute or two.
  • Devotionals and reflection questions for older kids and students.
  • Family activities that turn faith into shared experiences.

For Amazing+ churches, Parent+ is included at no additional cost. Parents download it for free on iOS or Android, and setup takes minutes.

Ready to Move from 40 Hours to 3,000?

Small, repeatable moments over time add up to powerful spiritual formation. And Parent+ helps you make them happen.

At breakfast, a 90-second question sparks family conversation.
In the car, a quick prompt connects faith to real life.
At bedtime, a short devotional closes the day with peace and purpose.

Parent+ helps you bridge the gap between Sunday and everyday, equipping parents to disciple their kids with confidence. It’s simple, practical, and included with an Amazing+ subscription.

Parent+: Your church’s discipleship, every day of the week.

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EveryChild: A Sensory-Friendly Church Curriculum from Amazing+ https://thinkorange.com/blog/everychild-a-sensory-friendly-church-curriculum-from-amazing/ Tue, 23 Sep 2025 14:19:41 +0000 https://thinkorange.com/?p=53807 Discover EveryChild—the sensory-friendly church curriculum designed for children with special needs. Equip volunteers with tools to create safe, welcoming, and inclusive spaces where every child belongs and encounters God’s love.

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For parents of children with special needs, walking into church on Sunday morning can come with a swirl of hesitations and questions: 

Will my child be welcomed? 

Will anyone know how to connect with them? 

Will this be a place where they truly belong? 

Too often, the answer feels uncertain. Not because the church doesn’t care, but because volunteers don’t feel equipped. When that happens, families feel unseen, leaders feel discouraged, and kids miss out on moments to encounter God’s love. 

We believe that every child is made in God’s image, so missing even one is missing too much.

An Invitation to Belong

What if church felt like a place where every child and family truly belonged?

Accessibility is about widening the door. Different kids connect in different ways: through words, music, art, movement, or even stillness. When we make space for those differences, we don’t just accommodate, we invite.

Because the truth is: a church that reflects the full beauty of God’s family is a church where every child, with every ability, has a place.

Introducing EveryChild

That’s why we created EveryChild—a sensory-friendly version of our Kids curriculum, designed specifically for children with different and special needs.

EveryChild was built with accessibility and sensory awareness from the ground up. It gives leaders the tools to help every child engage with God’s Word in ways that feel safe, welcoming, and life-giving.

This isn’t a side program or an afterthought. It’s a discipleship pathway because every child deserves the chance to know Jesus.

What’s Included

  • Care Plan + Allergy Alerts for safe, personalized care
  • Visual Schedule + Feelings Chart to build comfort and confidence
  • Playdough Mats + Celebration Stickers for sensory-friendly fun
  • Bible Story Image Cards + Pip & Bob video stories to bring Scripture to life
  • ASL Memory Verses to promote inclusion and deeper learning
  • Rest + Reset Visuals to create calm, supportive spaces
  • Leader Guides with quick-reference tips for building confidence when working with neurodivergent children.

EveryChild equips your ministry with simple, practical resources that make a big difference:

A Fuller Reflection of God’s Kingdom

When churches embrace the needs of every child, everything changes: 

Families feel seen, supported, and safe.
Volunteers lead with confidence instead of hesitation.
Kids of all abilities encounter Jesus in ways that resonate with their hearts.

Learn how to bring EveryChild to your church and ministry today.

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Bringing the LIGHT OF THE WORLD Into Theaters https://thinkorange.com/blog/bringing-the-light-of-the-world-into-theaters/ Mon, 01 Sep 2025 17:57:38 +0000 https://thinkorange.com/?p=53658 Let’s get this straight—there’s a new movie opening in theaters everywhere beginning September 5 that looks like it belongs with the great 2D-animated films from the 1990s, but it was created by a studio that is a non-profit ministry?!

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Welcome to LIGHT OF THE WORLD, the first movie from The Salvation Poem Project—a ministry that crafts stories to share Jesus Christ with the world.

“There needs to be a family film, a hand-drawn work of art, that tells the story of Jesus. This film should already exist, and it didn’t,” says Brennan McPherson, producer of LIGHT OF THE WORLD and president of The Salvation Poem Project. “We felt that it was a calling on our lives to make it happen. We’re grateful that God’s blessed it and has made it happen.”

This beautifully animated story of Jesus is told through the eyes of his young friend, the Apostle John. From the beginning of Jesus’ ministry through his crucifixion and resurrection, LIGHT OF THE WORLD powerfully illustrates how Jesus of Nazareth changed the world forever … and still changes lives today!

“For us, this is the most personal story we could possibly tell,” Brennan says. “Jesus completely changed our lives, and we wanted to show how he could take a broken person like me, a broken person like John, and completely transform him.”

LIGHT OF THE WORLD is a movie unlike any you’ve seen in a long time. Ideal for families to experience together, the film is designed to help you and your ministry do what you do best—share the love of Jesus with children and families.

“John 3:16 is at the heart of this movie because it’s all about God’s sacrifice on our behalf,” Brennan says. “The heart of LIGHT OF THE WORLD is the heart of God—his offer to save us from our own darkness. That’s why we called it LIGHT OF THE WORLD.”

Theologically sound and beautifully animated, LIGHT OF THE WORLD provides an amazing opportunity for your ministry and your families to invite others to experience the love of Jesus when it opens in theaters everywhere on September 5.

“We really wanted to remain focused on the basic fundamentals of the gospel: Jesus and him crucified and resurrected for the forgiveness of our sins and the new life that he offers through his Spirit,” Brennan says. “And we wanted to make a film that was timeless. We wanted to make a film that was a human expression of beauty.

“We wanted all the little imperfections of the hand-drawn, 2D-animation in there because we know we’re flawed. It felt fitting to us that the way we honor the only perfect person in the world is by doing this flawed artwork. And what makes it beautiful is that God accepts that as an offering, just like he accepts us.”

In addition to the movie, The Salvation Poem Project has created free resources for your church—and churches around the world. This includes a six-week children’s ministry curriculum featuring clips from the movie that help kids understand who Jesus is and how he lifts them up from where they are. Written by children’s ministry directors, each lesson also includes a fun family devotional that you can send home with the kids to serve families during the week.

Our hope is that you will use LIGHT OF THE WORLD as an opportunity to share Jesus with your community when the movie is in theaters this September. If you’re interested in taking a group, sign up here. Inspire your kids and families to invite their friends that don’t go to church to see this engaging movie that shares the gospel in a winsome and welcoming way.

“I really believe that LIGHT OF THE WORLD gives Christian families an opportunity to share their faith with their friends and neighbors, and to bring them to something that’s not only enjoyable to watch and a great entertainment experience, but also carries the infinitely valuable message of God’s love and atonement to bring us freedom,” Brennan says. “As you can imagine, we’re extremely excited to share this with the world.”

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4 Ways to Welcome New Families to Church on Easter https://thinkorange.com/blog/4-ways-to-welcome-new-families-to-church-on-easter/ Thu, 30 Jan 2025 14:04:13 +0000 https://thinkorange.com/?p=52252 Easter Sunday is a big deal! It’s one of the most attended Sundays of the year and an incredible opportunity to connect with new families. For many, this might be one of the few Sundays they step into a church all year. How you welcome them can make all the difference. A warm, fun, and […]

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Easter Sunday is a big deal! It’s one of the most attended Sundays of the year and an incredible opportunity to connect with new families. For many, this might be one of the few Sundays they step into a church all year. How you welcome them can make all the difference. A warm, fun, and thoughtful experience could turn a casual visit into the start of something life-changing. Here are some simple and practical ways to help new families feel right at home this Easter.

4 Ways to Welcome New Families to Church on Easter


1. Create an Inviting Experience

The experience starts long before families step through your doors. Here’s how to set the stage:

  • Update Your Online Presence: Spruce up your website and social media with a friendly “What to Expect” guide for first-time visitors. Clear, welcoming information helps families feel prepared.
  • Clear Signage: Ensure directional signs are easy to read and welcoming—no one likes feeling lost on their first visit.
  • Warm Greetings: Station volunteers in the parking lot to greet families and guide them to the right spot. First impressions matter, and a friendly face makes all the difference.
  • Streamlined Check-In: Make check-in simple, secure, and efficient. A “New Family Check-In” station with smiling volunteers and fun “First Day” stickers adds a personal touch.
  • Personal Engagement: Train your team to engage with families authentically. Get on kids’ level and let them know they’re truly welcome.

2. Make it Fun for the Kids

Easter should be exciting—especially for kids! Create an environment that feels special and welcoming:

  • Easter-Themed Activities: Provide fun items like stickers, coloring sheets, or small giveaways to make kids feel at ease.
  • Quick Family Tours: Offer short tours so parents can see where their kids will be during the service. Building confidence is key to making families comfortable.

3. Go Beyond “Hi, Nice to Meet You”

Walking into a new church can be intimidating. Help your team go the extra mile with these tips to welcome new families to church:

  • Meaningful Conversations: Train volunteers to ask open-ended questions like, “What brings you to church this Easter?” or “How old are your kids?”
  • Intentional Connections: Assign volunteers to introduce new families to others with similar-aged kids or ministry leaders who can follow up later. These personal touches foster belonging.

A great free resource for your volunteers is A Kids Ministry Volunteer’s Guide to Easter. This simple, two-sided conversation guide made for volunteers can be a great companion as they prepare for both the expected – and unexpected – conversations they’ll be facilitating at church this Easter. 


4. Follow Up Like a Pro

Don’t let Easter Sunday be the last time families hear from you! A thoughtful follow-up plan shows that you care:

  • Timely Contact: Reach out within 48 hours. A simple, personalized postcard can leave a lasting impression. Bonus points if it’s handwritten by the Kids Pastor!

Bonus Idea: Host an Easter Jam

Looking for an extra way to create a welcoming space? Host an Easter Jam! This high-energy, interactive experience brings families together to celebrate Easter. Here’s what it includes:

  • Engaging Storytelling: Share the message of Jesus’ resurrection in a fun, relatable way.
  • Games, Music, and Laughter: Create shared memories that leave families excited to return.
  • Family Connection: Partner with parents by creating an event that’s both entertaining and meaningful.

Easter Jam is a fantastic way to communicate the hope of Easter and show families that your church is a place to belong and grow in faith together. Did we mention this event kit is free? Download now to have an egg-cellent experience at your church for welcoming new families this Easter.


Here’s the Why

When you create a welcoming environment, fun experiences, and intentional connections, you’re helping families take their first step toward becoming part of your church community.

This Easter, let’s make it a day families will never forget—for all the right reasons. With a little intentionality and a lot of heart, you can help them see your church as a place where they belong. You’ve got this! Let’s roll out the red carpet and make Easter unforgettable.

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Middle School: Understanding This Wonderfully Awkward Phase https://thinkorange.com/blog/understanding-this-wonderfully-awkward-phase/ Tue, 09 Jul 2024 13:00:00 +0000 https://thinkorange.com/understanding-this-wonderfully-awkward-phase/ Middle school is the phase when nothing you do is cool, everything is fun in a crowd, and one smart kid will remind you, “yeah…I know.”

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The middle school phase. If you work with middle schoolers, know a middle schooler, or have been a middle schooler, you know there is one word to describe this phase: 

Awkward. 

And, this isn’t a judgment, but instead an acknowledgement that kids in sixth through eighth grade are navigating a lot of new experiences and changes. 

New schools

New friends

New hormones

New activities

New feelings 

New everything. 

When basically everything feels new, of course navigating those changes will be a little (or a lot) awkward. 

But, the middle school phase isn’t just full of awkward experiences. It’s also full of potential. 

How we as leaders and parents engage the unique opportunities of this phase has the potential to make a huge difference in the faith and future of preteens and teenagers. 

So, what do we need to know about the middle school phase? 

Let’s start with a few things you may notice about middle schoolers. 

Sixth Grade

No phase has less consistency than sixth grade.

Some sixth graders still sleep with stuffed animals and some want to sleep with their new cell phone. Most sixth graders are alternately one and then the other on any given day—or any given hour. They may appear sloppy and unkempt one moment and preppy and overdressed the next. That’s what makes every day a new day to discover who this growing person really is.

In these 52 weeks, a kid may grow three inches and gain ten pounds.

If you’re a parent, the place you’re most likely to notice the growth is in your grocery bill. Keep the pantry stocked. If you are leading sixth graders, bring french fries. Ultimate mic drop. Win.

During this year, there will be tears (both yours and theirs).

Doors will slam. Drama will happen. Hormones will soar. Friends will break up. Abnormal has become the norm. But amid all the ups and downs, in these changing tides of emotions, now is the time to lean in even more closely. When they push, prove you can’t be pushed away.

When they change, prove you will love them consistently.

When they break your trust, prove you are someone who can be trusted.

It may seem challenging, but keep up the chase so in this phase there’s never any reason to wonder, “Who cares?”

Seventh and Eighth Grade

You’ll begin to realize how embarrassing you really are.

If you are a parent of middle schoolers, you know that figuring out the new rules for your social behavior can be intimidating. When is it acceptable to “like” their Instagram post, and when are you allowed to openly comment? When are you expected to show up to the game, and whose parents are you not supposed to talk to? When are you supposed to dress up and be impressive, and when are you supposed to just be casual? Even when you aren’t a parent, the middle schoolers in your ministry may waiver between thinking you are the coolest person in the room or the person they don’t want to be seen with.

Insecurity is an unspoken force that keeps this phase wonderfully awkward.

Even the most confident seventh grader may choose a “group” Halloween costume. (“Let’s go together as rock, paper, scissors!”) They walk the hall in pairs. They go to the mall with a herd. They build unfathomably large social media platforms. The name of the game is to never be caught alone and to always associate with the coolest crowd possible.

You may be surprised at how smart they really are.

In fact, there may be no phase quite as smart as this one—just ask them. Being so much smarter than everyone else can really become a burden. Sometimes the patience just runs out, and they simply can’t explain it to you one more time. The important thing will be what they know, and how they begin to personalize it in this phase.

If you are a parent, days with your “kid” are over, because now–as they’ll remind you–they’re teenagers ready to make the world their own. So, look for ways to encourage their process (just remember that it’s their process, and they know it).

So, how are middle schoolers changing?

How Middle Schoolers are Changing Mentally

Middle Schoolers Think Like Engineers 

Like their physical bodies, there is a “growth spurt” in the brain of a middle schooler. The brain overproduces neurons and synapses similar to the growing brain of a toddler. This period of rapid growth accounts for a middle schooler’s ability to think more abstractly, to understand multiple perspectives, and to think critically about themselves and others. It also means that instructions need to be simple and clear if you hope to be heard. Like an engineer, they learn best when they personalize an idea by connecting pieces of information. That’s why puzzles, patterns, and codes can be helpful for learning in this phase.

How Middle Schoolers are Changing Relationally 

In middle school, a preteen challenges authority and personalizes what they believe. The way a middle schooler resolves the “Who” questions of life determines the framework for their relational stability. It affects the way they see themselves, the way they see the world, and the way they see themselves in the world. In these phases, the relational questions shift from black-and-white to grey. The answers are no longer the same for every kid, so they need to be personalized. The best way to resolve a middle schooler’s relational questions is to AFFIRM their personal journey. 

Specifically, sixth graders are asking, 

“Who do I like?” 

“Who likes me?” 

Sixth graders need an overdose of acceptance to combat the storm of changes. When adults recruit other encouraging and affirming leaders and peers, kids gain stability. 

When it comes to kids in seventh and eighth grade, they are asking, 

“Who am I?” 

Seventh and eighth graders are increasingly self-aware and self-conscious. When adults acknowledge positive qualities and strengths, kids discover uniqueness.

Here are a few things you’ll start to discover about kids in their seventh and eighth grade years:

Middle schoolers aren’t just asking relational questions and changing how they relate to adults, they are also changing how they relate to God. 

How Middle Schoolers are Changing Spiritually 

Middle schoolers need to know that God can rebuild their story-even when things haven’t gone according to plan. They relate to a God who overcomes impossible odds to rebuild what is broken, build stability, restore peace, resolve doubt, give hope and redeem everyone. 

When you affirm their personal journey you help a middle schooler own their own faith and value a faith community. 

So, what does this look like practically? 

Here are three ideas to help middle schoolers mature in their relationship with God: 

  1. Connect the dots.

    This is the phase when a kid begins connecting the information they learned in childhood to see how it works together. That means this is the best phase to connect the overarching narrative of Scripture. There is incredible potential to re-engage their sense of wonder about the Bible when their eyes are open to the masterful way the story connects not only from Genesis to Revelation, but with their own life as well.
  2. Expect a crisis.

    As middle schoolers connect the dots they may also discover that they believe a lot of things that don’t easily fit together. They may ask how an all-powerful God allows bad things to happen. You won’t know all the answers, so don’t act like you do. Just affirm what you do know. Help them anchor their faith to what is constant.
  3. Be consistent. 

    Speaking of constant, you may never have a phase where predictability matters more. Practice making regular promises and following through in simple ways to prove you can be trusted. It may seem like they are testing you. They are. Absolutely nothing you say will matter for a middle schooler unless you say it with the credibility you earn simply by showing up in their world to prove you care.

How Middle Schoolers are Changing Morally 

Middle school can be impulsive and intense. Whatever they feel they feel with passion—even if they may change their mind tomorrow. They have a unique blend of confidence and insecurity unlike any other phase. So you have to AFFIRM their personal journey. Middle schoolers are primarily motivated by acceptance. If you try to motivate a preteen through shame or embarrassment, it may work against their primary motive and lead to defiant and defensive behavior. But when you respond to them in a loving manner, you learn to listen more often, encourage more specifically, and guide more patiently. Then you influence them to stop and think rationally before they respond in the moment.

A few things to know related to how middle schoolers are changing in their moral development: 

Sixth Grade: 

  • Expands black and white thinking to consider notice
  • Expands empathy beyond just people they know 
  • Understands complex emotions, but desires to shut them out in order to fit in

Seventh & Eighth Grade:

  • The most deceitful age–they will lie
  • Begins to integrate reason and emotions 
  • Able to self-reflect and evaluate 
  • Tends to be preoccupied with ability (or lack of it) and undervalue effort

When we understand how kids and teenagers are changing, we are able to more effectively engage them. If you want to learn more about how to create a ministry informed by child development, check out the Phase Starter Kit today! 

To help you and the parents in your ministry navigate these unique phases, check out the Phase Guides. These 18 guides provide essential insights and practical advice tailored to each phase of a child’s life. Equip your team and parents by exploring the Phase Guides today.

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Navigating the Three Phases of Preschool Ministry https://thinkorange.com/blog/navigating-the-three-phases-of-preschool/ Fri, 28 Jun 2024 19:01:03 +0000 https://thinkorange.com/navigating-the-three-phases-of-preschool/ If you are in preschool ministry, you care about the faith and future of the next generation. You know that preschool ministry is so much more than childcare; it’s helping kids develop a foundation of faith. That’s why you spend a lot of creating environments, training volunteers, and planning lessons to help kids grow in […]

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If you are in preschool ministry, you care about the faith and future of the next generation.

You know that preschool ministry is so much more than childcare; it’s helping kids develop a foundation of faith. That’s why you spend a lot of creating environments, training volunteers, and planning lessons to help kids grow in their everyday faith. 

Because you are a smart leader, you also know that preschoolers don’t learn the same way adults do and they certainly don’t enjoy the same things adults do. (Cue Baby Shark as proof.) 

But, isn’t it easy to forget that is the case? 

Maybe that’s why sometimes . . . 

We try to explain big theological concepts to preschoolers that were transformative for us, but too abstract for them to understand. 

We play worship songs that are a bit graphic for little ears. 

We expect kids to sit still for a really long lesson when even the adults around the room are bored. 

We have all been there. That’s because there are two mistakes leaders tend to make when it comes to engaging kids: 

  1. Adults tend to assume, “They are like me now.” 

    Now, none of us would say that out loud, but it can be easy to act that way. We can get so excited about what God is teaching us personally that we want to teach the same exact thing to them. Or, we expect them to be able to behave like an adult. Not only is that rarely effective, we also miss out
    what we can learn from engaging their perspective. 
  2. Adults tend to assume, “They are like I used to be.” 

    Sometimes, we forget how much the world has changed since we were kids. We forget that kids are living in a world with smart phones, social media, and YouTube. Not to mention they are being raised by a generation that may have different parenting styles and values than the ones that influenced us. 

    That’s why if we want to engage the next generation effectively, we think there is one idea that has the potential to transform everything: phase. 

Phase Defined: A time frame in a kid’s life when you can leverage distinctive opportunities to influence their future.

When churches become intentional about understanding and leveraging what is actually happening in the stages of a kid’s life, it changes how they . . .

Partner with families at pivotal transitions.
Teach comprehensively from preschool through college.
Train leaders how to work with specific age groups. 
Improve dialogue and cooperation between ministries.
Resource parents to interact with kids in the home.

Every kid at every phase is changing in six ways: physically, mentally, relationally, culturally, emotionally, and morally.

So, what do we need to know about phase in order to engage preschoolers effectively? 

Phase Defined: A time frame in a kid’s life when you can leverage distinctive opportunities to influence their future.

  • The phase that should matter most to you is the phase they are in now.
  • The phase that matters most happens before or after this phase.
  • Adults tend to assume, “They are like me now.”
  • Adults tend to assume, “They are like I used to be.”
  • Every kid at every phase is changing in six ways: physically, mentally, relationally, culturally, emotionally, and morally.

Your Role | Embrace Their Physical Needs

Read Their Mind…

So kids in the three phases of preschool will believe they can win.

  • Know what can be expected of them and know how they think so they will hear what you say and know what to do.
  • BIG IDEA: Preschoolers think like an artist.
  • Preschoolers blend reality with imagination and learn best through their senses.

“Children are most like adults in their feelings. They are least like adults in their thinking. More information does not make them think like us.”

— Catherine Stonehouse

Discover Their World…

So kids in the three phases of preschool will feel they belong.

Zero to One: 

Kids in this phase are asking, “Am I safe?” 

In the first year of life, a baby needs to know they are safe. When adults consistently respond to a baby’s needs, babies establish trust. 

One & Two: 

Toddlers in this phase are asking, “Am I able?”

When a toddler is one and two years old, they discover new abilities. When adults patiently allow toddlers to try new things, they develop confidence. 

Three & Four:

Preschoolers in this phase are asking, “Am I okay?”

When a preschooler is three or four, they learn a few rules and expectations. When adults set boundaries and discipline with love, preschoolers cultivate self-control.

DON’T MISS THIS: The buffer in every crisis is love.

Interpret Their Motives…

So kids in the three phases of preschool will discern what they should do.

  • Moral emotions are instinctive. Moral development is not.
  • If you want to help a preschooler develop a moral conscience, you have to interpret and influence their motive.
  • The ultimate motive is love.
  • Preschoolers are motivated most by safety.

Play To Your Audience…

So kids in the three phases of preschool will discover how to relate to God.

  • How preschoolers relate to God: God’s story is my story.
  • When you embrace their physical needs you help a preschool know God’s love and meet God’s family.

Three Ideas to Help Preschoolers Mature in their Relationship with God.

Ignite their imagination. Build their confidence in a really big God.
Activate their senses. Help them see, feel, hear, and taste.
Structure their experience. Have a predictable schedule.

How Understanding the Elementary Phase Changes Your Ministry 

When we are intentional about engaging elementary kids and creating developmentally appropriate ministries, it changes everything-definitely more than what can fit in a blog. But, here are a few ways understanding the preschool phase changes what you do in your ministry and how you partner with other life-stage ministries. 

Ministry Strategy 

When you understand how kids learn and grow, it will change how you partner across life-stage ministries. As a preschool ministry leader, you will partner differently with the elementary preschool ministry leader because you know that what you teach in your preschool ministry will provide a foundation for what they learn next. You will also deepen your partnership with middle school ministry leaders because you care about how you move kids to what is next. 

When every life-stage ministry works together, you increase momentum for next gen ministry as a whole. 

Ministry Programming 

When you know preschoolers learn best through experiences, you will incorporate activities that engage all five senses. When you know preschoolers think like an artist, you will leverage movement, music, and art in your preschool ministry environment. When you understand that preschoolers are wired to experience wonder, it will change how you tell Bible stories to incite wonder for a big God. 

Phase changes everything when it comes to how you teach and what you teach in your preschool ministry. That’s why First Look Curriculum is designed to be both theologically sound and developmentally appropriate. 

Training Leaders 

Volunteers sign up to serve because they care about the faith and future of preschoolers, too. 

But, if they don’t understand phase, they may . . . 

Get frustrated when preschoolers have short attention spans. 
Ask kids questions in small group they don’t understand. 
Or, not understand why there are so many songs and art activities in your ministry. 

At the same time, when you understand phase, you know that you need to recruit consistent volunteers because preschoolers can be terrified by an unfamiliar face. You also know that who you recruit to volunteer matters, too. 

Partnering With Parents 

When you understand that every year comes with unique opportunities to leverage to influence a kid’s faith and future, you will also equip parents to understand those opportunities. You will cue parents to have more intentional conversations at home and lean into important conversations differently at each life-stage. 

If you want to learn more about how to integrate Phase strategy into your ministry, check out the Phase Starter Kit today!

To help you and the parents in your ministry navigate these unique phases, check out the Phase Guides. These 18 guides provide essential insights and practical advice tailored to each phase of a child’s life. Equip your team and parents by exploring the Phase Guides today.

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Why Every Ministry Leader Should Partner With Parents https://thinkorange.com/blog/engage-every-parent-to-have-positive-spiritual-influence/ Fri, 21 Jun 2024 19:01:52 +0000 https://thinkorange.com/blog/engage-every-parent-to-have-positive-spiritual-influence/ For the greatest spiritual impact on the kids in our ministries, we must partner with parents. Read to find out what it means to engage every parent.

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On average, a ministry leader has 40 hours in a given year to impact the life of a kid or teenager. In other words, there are many different things working against a kid showing up to your church. To name a few . . . vacation days, holidays, sick days, and blended family calendars. But when you add all of those up, you get around 40 hours every year. 

And as a leader, you need to calculate what you are going to do with those 40. 

On the other hand, when you calculate the number of waking hours parents have with their kids, the answer is 3,000. 

So when you look at the 40 hours you have in contrast to the 3,000 hours parents have, doesn’t it make logical sense to engage parents?

If you want to make a difference and have a lasting impact on the life of a kid, you need to think in terms of how to partner with parents. More specifically you need to engage every parent to win. 

What it Means to Engage Every Parent

When we say every parent we mean every . . .

Parent.
Guardian.
Parent of kids with special needs.
Foster parent.
Single parent.
Gay parent.
Parent outside the walls of your church.

We mean every human who has a parental role. 

You see, “every” requires you to understand individual parents.
Every enables you to do more than what you would usually do.
It requires you to think outside the content of parents you see every week.
Every requires you to think about the parents you don’t have a relationship with.
Ministry leader, every requires you to think about the parents you don’t see.

Because here’s what is true… 

Every Parent Wants To Be A Better Parent

If you act like every parent wants to be a better parent, then you’ll do more than you would have done before. Because with this mindset, you’ll give parents more potential, credit, and actually respect them more. 

But what does engage parents actually mean? 

We simply mean to engage parents with their families, friends, kids and teenagers.

Engage parents with a community that will actually support them in winning and what they do as a parent. So that one day when their kids grow up and become adults, they’ll still be friends. 

Engage every parent is such an important strategy because we want to connect parents to something that will help them win at home. 

What Partnering with Parents Looks Like in Your Ministry

So what does that look like in your ministry? 

We actually did a research project where we met with leaders all around the country and asked how they knew they were winning when it came to partnering with parents. 

Essentially, what does a win look like? 

All of the ideas kind of came down to these two concepts: 

  • Help parents become more intentional at home and more connected to a community. 
  • That means if we want to help parents, we need to measure the win by what happens in the walls of their house and how they are connected to a community. 

We all want to make a lasting difference in the lives of the kids and teenagers in our community. But that requires us to do more than the 40 hours. We have to make sure we are leveraging the 3,000 to influence the future of a child. 

Learn more about what it looks like to partner with parents, and how Orange can help along the way.

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5 Easter Activities For Families This Year https://thinkorange.com/blog/5-easter-activities-for-families-this-year/ Wed, 28 Feb 2024 19:44:47 +0000 https://thinkorange.com/?p=38307 Explore 5 Easter Activities for Families: From interactive storytelling to creative crafts, discover ways to make this holiday meaningful and memorable for your family. Dive into engaging resources that celebrate hope and the Easter story together. Start planning your Easter celebration today!

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Holidays are often hectic for families, leaving parents feeling overwhelmed by the idea of planning and celebrating a holiday meaningfully. With stuffed schedules and burgeoning to-do lists, parents everywhere are often searching for easy, uncomplicated ways to celebrate Easter. 

Your church has a unique opportunity to support families in celebrating hope and experiencing this anticipated holiday with intention. Here are some ways to help families celebrate Easter and form lasting memories together:

Easter Jam
This free event kit gives churches the tools they need to plan, promote, and host a family Easter experience! Each kit includes planning files, marketing materials, games, graphics, production files, and more. You can add on the Easter Jam media and graphics package, which includes video elements, music, additional graphics/marketing pieces, and so much more!

Easter Story Activity Kit
The Easter Story Activity Kit gives families a tangible way to celebrate hope this Easter. The kit takes families through an age-appropriate re-telling of the Easter story. It includes a printed booklet and an activity that serves as a visual reminder that even when things seem dark, something good can happen.

The Easter Story book
The Easter Story book introduces preschoolers to key truths about the Easter story. Beautifully illustrated, the 16-page board book is written in an engaging, easy-to-understand rhyme, beginning with the Lord’s Supper and progressing through Jesus’ breakfast on the beach with the disciples. This book is also included in our board book bundle

Yay Jesus! Pennant
Celebrate Jesus with your preschoolers with these “Yay Jesus” Pennants! These pennants, perfectly sized for small hands, give your preschoolers something to hold onto or hang on the wall to celebrate Jesus this Easter!

It’s the small things that often mean so much to overwhelmed parents, and a roundup like this might be just the thing they need to start thinking about how to celebrate Easter with their families. You can find the entire Easter collection right here

A Kids Ministry Volunteer’s Guide to Easter
What you say, in the moment, can be said better if you anticipate what you’re going to say (or not say).

The Easter season presents some pretty great opportunities to have critical discussions with the preschoolers and elementary kids we lead. In these phases, kids are ready to engage in discussions about the power of God and the hope we have because of Jesus. This simple, two-sided conversation guide made for volunteers can be a great companion as they prepare for both the expected – and unexpected – conversations they’ll be facilitating at church this Easter. 

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The Ministry Leader’s Ultimate Gift Guide https://thinkorange.com/blog/the-ministry-leaders-ultimate-gift-guide/ Tue, 28 Nov 2023 22:16:17 +0000 https://thinkorange.com/blog/the-ministry-leaders-ultimate-gift-guide/ Welcome to the Ministry Leaders’ Ultimate Gift Guide. We want to help you celebrate your volunteer leaders and parents because we know that the quality and culture of a ministry are highly dependent on the success of those two influences.  Plus, what you celebrate gets repeated! So let’s spread some Christmas cheer to those folks […]

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Welcome to the Ministry Leaders’ Ultimate Gift Guide. We want to help you celebrate your volunteer leaders and parents because we know that the quality and culture of a ministry are highly dependent on the success of those two influences.  Plus, what you celebrate gets repeated! So let’s spread some Christmas cheer to those folks who are leading those who influence the next generation with excellence week in and week out!

For Volunteers

 width=Seen – Do you sense the students you serve might be struggling with something, but you just can’t put it into words? This book contains essential information about the dynamics of despair in teens in a clear and understandable way, plus practical tools to help leaders give kids and teens hope. Give your leaders the gift of understanding your students in a deeper way.

 width=“Every Morning” Amber Mug – Affirm your leaders who are doing the work of not just being there but are showing up for the kids and teens in your ministry.

 width=Becoming Better Grown-Ups – This book is a beautiful reminder of why listening to the people and world around us can remind us of the child-like joy that lives in every corner of our lives. Your leaders will love the fun illustrations and how playful this book is. This is the perfect gift that should make it to the top of anyone’s To Be Read stack.

 width=Be Human Sweater – This sweatshirt is so cozy, but it also carries a great reminder to be human. Being human means that we see our neighbors and are for them. Your leaders will love this physical reminder that they are loving well in the spaces where they lead. 

 width=What Most Parents Aren’t Telling You – For years, we have made assumptions about our parents’ needs. We finally have real data showing us the concerns parents carry with them. This book will give your leaders insight and equip them to communicate better with the families they serve. 

For Kids/Teenagers

 width=How To See God – I have given this book to all of my nieces, and they have loved it. It is written so that every teen can engage with it easily! Helping teenagers to see God in their everyday context can help them build a faith that goes with them everywhere. 

 width=How To See God Playing Cards – Playing cards is a core memory I have with my girls. We have loved to play games together! Each card in this 52-card deck has a unique way for your teen to discover God in their everyday life. 

 width=Know God – One of the very best things we can do for the kids in our care is to give them opportunities to make faith their own at their own pace. This 4-week devotional for elementary-age kids lays a foundation for beginning their faith journey and allows them to write their own thoughts, prayers, and questions about God.

 width=Starting Now – One of life’s biggest transitions is going to college after high school. It is such a big life change that, as a parent, we want to help them navigate it with confidence. This book can be incredibly helpful to walk with your teenager through this exciting but scary time. One of the best parts is onmyteam.org, where people who love and care for your teenager can sign up and be cued throughout the year on when they may need a little encouragement during their freshman year. 

 width=Your New Playlist – I think all of us can be guilty of negative self-talk. This is especially true for teenagers. This book is written by teenagers who understand what it’s like to want to change their internal playlist and choose more positive and helpful thoughts. Give your students the gift of a reminder that new thoughts can lead to new actions that can help them navigate life in a more positive way.

 width=Ollie and So & So Show Merch – If you’ve been around Orange for a while, you have probably heard the names Ollie, Jon, and Brandon (likely through the screams of toddlers or 10-year-old boys). Gifts like an Ollie plush, Ollie bandages, or a So & So Show notebook, or dodgeball create a unique, personal connection to your ministry and remind them that your church is both a place to feel safe and have fun.

For Parents

Let’s be honest. If you are a parent, you want to be the best parent possible, but sometimes, we just don’t know what to do. It is also hard to admit that because doesn’t that mean we are saying with a megaphone that we don’t know what we are doing? In those moments, I try to find all the resources to read and listen to in order to feel more confident in my conversations with my teenager! Here are some great resources to help you be the parent you want to be! They are also great options, if you want to give them to parents in your community!

 width=Beyond The Spiral – We have heard all the data that is coming out about our kid’s generation. The world keeps saying they are the most “anxious generation,” and as a parent, that can feel incredibly hard. Most of us are not trained professionals in this area, but we do want to understand more so that we can support our kids. Beyond the Spiral will equip a teenager on how best to stop the anxiety cycle from taking over their life. I love this book (along with Seen) because it is written in a way that I can easily understand abstract concepts and put some action steps into place.

 width=Letter to Parents Mug – Everyone needs a pep talk or a word of encouragement! When I put my morning coffee in this mug, it is a fun reminder that I am doing my best, this phase is going to end sooner rather than later, and I need to pause. Take time to enjoy where your kid or teenager is today! Plus, it is more fun to drink out of your favorite mug.

 width=3 Big Questions That Change Every Teenager – All of our kids are thinking about who they are, where they fit in, and what they are going to do with their life. Identity, purpose, and belonging are at the heart of most conversations, and the best thing we can do as parents is to understand how to begin to give some answers to these critical questions.

 width=Raising Couragous Humans Sweater – A cozy sweatshirt with a beautiful message makes this the best gift for any parent! This sweatshirt has a companion shirt for your entire family.

 width=Undistracted – Our attention spans are smaller than ever! This book was a reminder that joy and purpose surround us every day; we are just too distracted to slow down long enough to see it. This book is full of fun storytelling that makes it an easy read! I believe we all want authentic connection and undistracted love.

Many of the selections above are a part of our 2023 Holiday collection that we’ve curated for your volunteers, kids, students, parents—and some just for YOU! Head over to the Orange Store and use code HOLIDAY2023 at checkout to get 20% OFF until December 31!

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Why I Use the Parent Cue App and Why Churches Should, Too. https://thinkorange.com/blog/why-i-use-the-parent-cue-app-and-why-churches-should-too/ Thu, 19 Oct 2023 19:04:42 +0000 https://thinkorange.com/blog/why-i-use-the-parent-cue-app-and-why-churches-should-too/ Becoming a parent during the COVID-19 pandemic presented unique challenges, but discovering the Parent Cue App provided invaluable support for navigating the journey of parenthood. This app offers a wealth of resources, including developmental insights, daily devotionals, and activity suggestions, helping parents build spiritual habits and make the most of their time with their children. As a ministry leader, the app was also a valuable tool for connecting with and supporting parents in the congregation, emphasizing the importance of churches partnering with families to enhance parenting strategies and provide resources for busy parents.

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I became a parent in the middle of COVID. Trying to navigate first-time parenthood as well as a worldwide pandemic was a challenge, to say the least. I was constantly looking for resources and activities while at home with my babies. And because I wasn’t working as much due to the environment we were all living in, parenting was a full-time job. I was at home. . . every single day. . .with my babies. During that season, I was also serving as a full-time Childrens & Youth Pastor and was always thinking about of how to connect to our families outside of email or social media. When I became familiar with Parent Cue during the height of the pandemic, I was blown away that something like this actually existed. 

The Parent Cue App has been a game-changer for me as a parent. 

Like most new parents, I felt clueless about anything regarding parenting and raising children, despite my professional experience in family ministry. I truly believe that until you have your own children, parenting is hard to understand and relate to. That’s why I love the resources from Parent Cue-especially the Parent Cue App. The Parent Cue app is a tool that Parent Cue offers for free that equips parents to be the parents we want to be. Currently, I use the app on a weekly basis to get an encouraging message that gives me hope as I parent. I use the app because I get to learn about where my children are developmentally as they grow and there are resources like daily devotionals and curriculum to help them build spiritual habits. They even have activity suggestions for when children are out of school or can’t go outside. I also love the countdown feature because it allows me to see how much time I have left to pour into my children while they are in my home. It’s a great reminder that time does truly fly as a parent, and 18 years goes by so fast. So, we must make the most of the time we have with our children. I also use the app to find resources and articles to help navigate parenting in the specific season of parenting that I am in. I love that the articles are on relevant topics and are written by real people and real parents. Plus, when I read them, it makes me feel like there is a village cheering me on. Don’t all parents need that? All of these resources help me be more intentional in my parenting, and I love that it is all in one place. 

The Parent Cue App was also a game-changer for me as a ministry leader. 

Because I loved Parent Cue as a parent, when I discovered it, I wanted to wrap up as many of the resources I could to gift it to all of the parents I knew. I was so grateful for the wealth of information on parenting in one spot. Coming from a church in which parent ministry or parent strategies were not always prioritized, I saw it as an incredible resource that could change the lives of families in my congregation. 

The Parent Cue app is a great tool for churches of any size and can help them stay connected with the parents they serve. Not only that, but it can also be one part of an intentional parent strategy by putting resources in the hands of busy parents that helps them reinforce what their kids or students learn on a Sunday. Plus, if a family misses a Sunday, it is a great way to stay connected with them as they are on the go. This is all about the church partnering with parents and helping them be the best parents they can be with tools and resources to support their efforts.

Finally, the app also includes a Shop, which is full of fun apparel for parents and for their kids as well as books and resources to help parents at all stages. It’s a great place to shop! 

The Parent Cue app is one-of-a-kind, and there doesn’t seem to be anything out there that can compare. This unique resource puts parenting back in the hands of parents and gives us a wealth of resources and the spiritual guidance to be encouraged day to day in this lifelong journey.  It is an impactful tool for any parent trying to influence their children for the good and for any church trying to serve and encourage parents everywhere. If you want to learn more about the Parent Cue App or try customization free for 30 days check out parentcueapp.church.

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